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Friday, March 2, 2012

What is the Meaning of Life?



Everyday people come to me seeking advice on solutions to life's big and small problems. But one question I get often (usually in a sarcastic form of asking) is "what is the meaning of life"?
This isn't a question most people ask themselves, or others, daily. Most of the time, the question is brought about by people crossing the threshold into adulthood, by people that are in a state of depression, or by people who are just pondering. Unfortunately, some people are pushed to the point where they believe that no meaning exists for living, but only the "day-to-day" struggle and procreation. This is actually the foundation of the “human suicidal mindset”.
But, there is meaning. There are four components, to be exact.

Viktor Frankl, a holocaust survivor, wrote a book about the meanings of life, and why it is that people continue to live. It’s titled Man's Struggle for Meaning. He came up with three reasons:

1. Others- People want to live for other people. Whether it be parents, siblings, spouse, family, friends, or even strangers. It's like a sense of protection.

2. Deed- A job or duty can bound someone to life. This coincides with a sense of fulfillment.

3. Attitude- The ability to decide and change ones attitude, pending ones circumstance. This coincides with a persons want for free will.

Wait a minute, that’s only three. Well, the 4th isn't one that Frankl's discusses. I thought deeper Viktor Frankl’s components and found that something was missing.
There are people who have lost everyone in their life and have a job that isn't very meaningful. This can very well be a breeding ground for an unstable and possibly suicidal mindset. So, what is it that gets people in similar situations by day-to-day? Why do they get up every day and go about their life? Well, this is because of the fourth component.

4. Potential- This slightly corresponds with Attitude. People, I've noticed, have a natural instinct toward optimism about life. No matter the situation one is currently in, the future is always changing and unpredictable. This is why people have goals and dreams. There is always hope for a better tomorrow.


                                                      Damian

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